How to Eliminate the Word No from Your Vocabulary
I hate the word “no.” I hate saying it. I hate hearing it. It’s very unproductive.
Believe it or not, you can eliminate it from your vocabulary and replace it with two simple words that can make all the difference in how you’re perceived and how much people want to work with you.
I recently had the pleasure of speaking with Kevin Eikenberry (author of From Bud to Boss) for over an hour on this topic. Today I’ll provide an excerpt of that conversation and at the end of the post I’ll provide you with a link for the actual audio file of our conversation.
Here’s the discussion Kevin and I had around two of the most powerful words you can use to replace “no” in your vocabulary. It’s another excerpt from my conversation with Kevin (previously Kevin and I discussed a leader’s role in process improvement – you can read that post here and we also covered how you can avoid scope creep – read that one here).
Kevin Eikenberry: Let’s talk about us as leaders. We have got a lot of stuff going on. How do we as leaders stay focused on what we are trying to achieve and not be the source of the problem? How can we stay focused and be the best support to process improvement efforts?
Mike Figliuolo: One of the most important things that I have learned is the ability to say no. I am not saying I am good at it, I just know that it’s important. That said, we as leaders can be much more effective in that regard.







