Our reader poll today asks: How involved are you with mentoring relationships?
Extremely: I have mentors and serve as a mentor to others 20.69%
Very: I have a mentor and/or serve as a mentor to one or two people 21.56%
Somewhat: I have a mentor but don’t mentor others 6.04%
Somewhat (2): I don’t have a mentor but I do mentor others 37.06%
Not at all: I’m not involved in any mentoring relationships 14.65%
Learning from experience. Mentoring relationships can be beneficial to all parties involved. For the mentor, it’s an opportunity to build connections, share experiences, and help others develop. For those being mentored, it’s help working through challenging issues by an experienced hand. If you’re in the large groups of respondents who don’t have mentors, consider seeking one out. You don’t have to face challenges alone and it’s okay to ask for help. Those relationships with your mentors can also turn into new opportunities because they’ll be able to point you to others you should know. If you’re not involved in mentoring relationships in any way, consider starting small and getting advice on a real issue you’re facing. Those small steps could blossom into a bigger relationship that rewards both of you.
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Our reader poll today asks: What is your assessment of your current immediate team?
We’re truly a high-performing team, well above all others 17.18%
We’re a solidly performing team 50.77%
We’re an average team 20.61%
We’re a below-average team 6.10%
We’re a dysfunctional team 5.34%
Change your view of average. Almost 70% of poll respondents claim to be on an above-average team. Clearly that math doesn’t work. While the bias is natural to think your team is great, do you really have a clear view as to what average performance is and where your performance stands relative to that standard? When is the last time you went out and talked with other teams about what they’re doing well? Are you hitting the same performance levels as those teams? How can you improve your game? Don’t be satisfied with simply saying you’re above average. Go validate that performance and objectively assess how well you’re doing. There’s always room for improvement. Bias and complacency might be holding you back from achieving greatness. And if you’re in the 11% who said you’re below average or dysfunctional, you’re probably right and you need to put an action plan together immediately. Go benchmark great teams, pick one or two small tasks you can improve, and start a gradual performance improvement program.
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Establishing an ethical code helps you behave in a manner that is consistent with the type of leader you want to be.
As a leader, it’s important to set guidelines. We’ve all made bad decisions at some point. Wouldn’t it be great to have something that can prevent us from making a bad decision before it actually happens? So a leadership maxim designed to say, “Here are my rules of the road. Here are the things that are non-negotiable for me and decisions I won’t make outside of this set of boundaries.”
I’ve had two maxims over the years. The first, “It’s hard to shave if you can’t look yourself in the mirror.” Now, with this goatee, I have to look in the mirror every single day, but the way this maxim reminds me to make good decisions is, I need to be okay with the guy that’s looking back at me in the mirror every single morning. There have been times where I had two choices, and I could easily logic my way into making a wrong one. This maxim has made me pause for a second and say, “How are you going to feel about this tomorrow?” And the answer was not so great, so I made the more difficult choice.
Now, in terms of emotional resonance, that maxim resonated for me for a while, but ultimately, I changed my maxim to, “What would Nana say?” Nana was my grandmother, and I’m the firstborn grandson in an Italian family, so Nana and I had a very special relationship. I sit there and I think about, well, what would my Nana say if she saw me doing what I’m doing right now? She would either be really proud of me and happy with it or she’d start saying things to me that I might not be so comfortable with.
I’ve applied this maxim in a lot of situations. I was in a situation shortly after Nana passed away, three days later, and I was going to give this presentation on leadership maxims at my largest, most important client. As I walked into the hotel that night, I said, “Oh my gosh, I can’t put that slide up because it has a picture of Nana on it. I’ll be in front of 300 people, and I might start crying.” I stopped and I said, “Well, what would Nana say?” Nana would say, “Michael, put the slide up. Show people what vulnerability looks like. Show them what emotional resonance can really do.” I followed the guidance, and it was an uncomfortable moment, but afterwards, something incredible happened. People came up to me and they said, “I want to thank you for sharing your personal story and really showing me what it means to make yourself vulnerable.” So that maxim has served me very well and helped me make difficult decisions.
As you think about your guidelines as a leader, what are your non-negotiables? What are the things that have prevented you from making bad decisions? It’s important that you write this maxim during a time of calm because when the pressure is on, that’s when the maxim is really important. When that pressure is on, we can make bad decisions as leaders. This maxim will serve as that guardrail that stops you when you’re about to cross over that line. It will help you make a decision that’s consistent with the type of leader that you want to be.
Think about those situations where perhaps you made a bad decision, or you made a great decision, and what led you to do that. What are the types of things that will prevent you from making bad decisions in the future and will help you behave in a manner that’s consistent with the leader that you want your team to see you as? As you think about that situation and break it down to a very pithy, simple rule that will trigger that memory, that’s going to be your leadership maxim for setting your own personal guidelines.
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Internalizing these four aspects of leadership is a great first step in developing your personal leadership philosophy.
When articulating your leadership philosophy, you need to think beyond the leader led diad. A lot of times we get focused on, “Well, this is how I interact with a person and that’s what leadership is about.” As a leader, you need to look at yourself more completely as an individual in a variety of domains. As I’ve looked at leadership and tried to be more complete in the thinking about it, there are really four aspects of leadership that I invite you to think about:
Leading Yourself
First is leading yourself. Where are you going? What’s important to you? What are your personal ethical standards? What are the beliefs that underpin how you’re going to interact with the members of your team?
Leading the Thinking
Next is leading the thinking. As the leader, you need to set the direction for where the team is headed. You need to articulate behavioral standards for what you will and won’t stand for from the members of your team.
Leading Your People
Next is leading your people, and we need to lead people as individuals. You can’t treat them as faceless cogs in the machine because that won’t inspire them or get the best performance out of them. Leading your people is all about understanding what their personal wants and needs are and what motivates them.
Leading a Balanced Life
The last aspect of leadership is leading a balanced life because if you’re burned out, you’re worthless to the members of your team. Additionally, as a leader, you set the tone, so you’re going to set an example on balance. Making sure that you stay in balance is important to making sure the team stays in balance.
Developing Your Leaderships Maxims
Now, a maxim is a principle or rule of conduct. Across these four aspects of leadership, you’re going to articulate your personal leadership maxims. A maxim is a short, pithy statement that serves as a reminder for how you want to behave. They need to be emotionally resonant for you. They need to stir up strong feelings because those strong feelings are going to drive you to behave in a certain way. The maxim needs to be simple enough that you can explain the story behind it to the members of your team because you’re going to give them a window into what’s important and exciting and inspiring to you. It’s going to help them understand how you behave. You were in a situation previously that led to this set of feelings, and if you’re in a similar situation, you’re going to behave in that consistent manner. No buzzwords, no consult-o-speak, and they’re going to be a reflection of you at a specific point in time.
Your maxims should grow as you grow and have new experiences as a leader. In terms of where you can find your maxims, you already know all the answers. I’m just here to give you the tools to be able to pull them out. Maxims can come from situations where you interacted with somebody important to you. It can be a boss, a family member, or a coach who said something so profound and so inspiring to you that you say, “There’s real emotional resonance for me in that.” Maxims can come from situations you found yourself in as a leader or a member of a team that really meant a great deal to you. Maxims are sometimes found in stories, in song, in poetry, in scripture, things that moved you, and you don’t even have to be sure why it moved you. It just did move you, and it became a fundamental belief that you have.
Maxims are all around you. You need to go back inside. Go back into your prior history and think about those situations that really meant a great deal for you. Then, create the trigger that reminds you of that situation or the phrase or the words that were actually used by that person who was meaningful to you. That phrase and that situation is what’s going to guide your behavior going forward. You’re then going to create your leadership maxims across all the aspects of leadership, and the sum of those maxims becomes your personal leadership philosophy.
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Our reader poll today asks: When it comes to being coached, what kind of coaching do you prefer to receive?
I want a coach who only asks questions and I come up with my own answers 4.52%
I want a coach who offers advice and suggestions on what the answer is 9.04%
I want a coach who balances between asking and telling 86.44%
Ask and Tell. There’s a clear preference for coaching that strikes a balance between asking questions that help someone reach their own answers but also telling answers that can accelerate growth and development. For those delivering coaching, work to start with asking questions and push the person you’re working with to really think and come up with new ideas and challenge their way of thinking. That said, don’t let them get exasperated or discouraged and recognize when you should move into “telling” mode where you offer them some of your own suggestions. If you’re the person being coached, push yourself to think more deeply but don’t hold back from telling your coach that you’re out of ideas and could really use some suggestions. Finding the right balance will foster growth but also accelerate development and performance improvement.
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Defining your organization’s vision and mission helps you focus on work that is consistent with your purpose.
A vision and mission define your purpose and your destination. While the mission and vision are usually written for top-level organizations, these tools can be used at a departmental level and even at a personal level. They help you focus on work that is consistent with your purpose and that takes you closer to achieving your goals.
The mission is why your organization exists. It specifies the business you’re in, who you serve, and your impact on the world around you. It’s the road you’re on. I run a leadership training firm. My firm’s mission is to advance the art of business leadership through hands-on training and coaching led by dynamic business people. It’s clear what business we’re in: business leadership training. It’s clear who we work with: people in large and small organizations who are their leaders. And the impact on the world is helping people improve their skills in this arena.
The vision is a midterm objective of what you’ll achieve three to five years out. It’s a waypoint along the road you’re on. My firm’s vision, right now, is to be a global firm of uniquely skilled executives who teach managers around the world how to be great leaders. This lays out my expectations for the type of work we’re going to do and when I’ll consider us to be successful. This global element is something that’s new in the past few years, and it’s really getting us to focus on other countries.
The mission and vision are linked. They can be created for any organization. They’ll set direction and help determine the work you will or won’t do. For my firm, our vision and mission do exactly that. We routinely say no to consulting work. It’s not part of our mission and it doesn’t help us achieve our vision. When you lay out your mission and vision for your organization, it’s going to set that direction that will enable you to know which types of work matter and which types of work are off your path.
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Our reader poll today asks: What is the biggest mistake you see people make after they get promoted?
They coast and figure “they’ve got this” based on the skills that got them promoted 13.46%
They start acting like a big shot and treat their former peers poorly 22.96%
They try to take on too much to impress others and get overwhelmed 36.94%
They act like a “know-it-all” and are unwilling to listen or learn 19.78%
Something else 6.86%
New title, same you. Clearly “big shot” behaviors like acting like a know it all, treating others poorly, or being overconfident are big “no no’s” once you’ve been promoted. They’ll alienate coworkers, turn off managers, and frustrate your team members. Remember – it’s the same you, just with a different title and pay grade. Stay grounded and focus on the work. But focusing on the work can carry a risk – taking on too much work to impress others. Be careful not to overcommit yourself. While you might succeed, you’re possibly setting yourself up to burn yourself out from taking on too much work or you might fail at multiple tasks because you’re not ready to take them on. Take a measured approach to your new role, focus on your core responsibilities, and continue being the great coworker that got you promoted in the first place.
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Market and organizational changes can require you to shift your strategic focus. Being explicit about the details of the shift will help you and your team adjust to these changes.
Market and organizational changes can require you to shift your focus. This can mean temporarily pausing some work to accelerate or add new projects. Remember that your team’s time and energy is a fixed asset. Shifting focus doesn’t mean adding new things to focus on. Unless you add resources, you have to make trade-offs on where people spend their time. This enables you to complete more projects faster because your team is focused on them. During a shift in focus, draft a plan and communicate it. This plan should include:
What’s causing us to shift focus?
What’s our desired outcome once we get through the change?
What’s our strategy for navigating the change?
What old work will we stop doing to free up resources?
What new work will we be focusing on?
When I worked at a financial services firm, we had a major event that caused us to shift focus. The regulators came in and took a look at our processes. They didn’t like what they saw. They said we needed to rectify a whole list of issues. We put together and communicated a plan. What was causing us to shift focus? The regulators identified these 10 issues. What’s our desired outcome once we get through it? Well, those issues are resolved to the satisfaction of the regulators. What’s our strategy for navigating the change? Well, we’re going to stop doing some of our technology projects and move all our resources to the regulatory issues. What old work were we going to stop? Well, here are the five projects that are now on hold. What new work will we be focusing on? Here are the 10 ideas, and here’s how we’re going to allocate resources against them.
By being explicit about the shift and moving the resources to it, we got through those regulatory issues pretty quickly. When we finished, we picked up the technology projects and moved forward. If you shift focus without communicating the new end state and explicitly saying what work is in or out of focus, you risk people taking on new work but not feeling like they can stop doing the old work to take on the new. You risk burning out the team. When you have one these major shifts, be deliberate about putting a plan in place and communicating it to the organization.
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Our reader poll today asks: When faced with a risky decision, what do you do?
I make the decision quickly, accept the risk, and am willing to adjust just as quickly 18.09%
I pause, gather more information, build a risk mitigation plan, then decide 64.19%
I delay the decision, gather a lot of information, and decide later 14.89%
I stall, get caught in analysis paralysis, and never make a decision 2.83%
Know the cost of waiting. 80% of you report waiting to make a decision until you gather additional information. While more information is always good to have, be sure you understand the cost of waiting. Sometimes that extra time you wait will cost you revenue, an opportunity to make a deal, the chance at hiring that great candidate when they get poached by another offer, or any other event that can occur during that waiting period. Be sure you know what information you want to gather and if it has the potential to change your answer or decision. If it won’t change the answer, make the decision now and avoid the risk of something bad happening while you’re waiting for your additional information.
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Resist the urge to pursue every new opportunity. Invest your resources in the ones that align with your overall strategy.
New ideas and opportunities come along all the time. Resist the urge to jump on the next new thing. Rely on your prioritization process to assess all new ideas. Remember, if you add something new to your list, you either need to add resources to work on it or you have to stop working on something else, or finish something that’s a higher priority before you start working on the new task. Failure to do this leads to the inevitable burnout of your team.
In high growth organizations, periods of hyper growth can be really dangerous. During that time, everything’s interesting and exciting. The team has the energy to pursue a lot of ideas. But eventually, they run out of steam. Initiatives fail. Morale drops and performance suffers. Maintain a rigorous approach to drawing the line, and only pursue initiatives when you have the resources available to pursue them properly.
What I mean by drawing the line is, think of your initiative list. Start at the top of the list with your highest priority initiatives and then list every single idea and project you’re working on. Then, once you have that complete list, figure out what resources you have available to do the work. That may be people, time, or money.
Start at the top of your list and work your way down that list, figuring out how many resources that project is going to consume. When you run out of resources, draw a line on your prioritization list. Don’t work on anything below that line until you have additional resources or you finish a project above the line.
Enforce the discipline of assessing all new initiatives through your strategic filters. The filters let you know how closely aligned an idea is with your overall strategy. When you find something that’s off-strategy, there’s a rationale for saying no to it and staying focused on the most important ideas.
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Our reader poll today asks: How confident are you in your written communication skills?
Extremely: I convey thoughts clearly and compellingly 30.36%
Very: I’m an above-average written communicator 47.96%
Somewhat: I do an OK job expressing written thoughts 15.57%
Not very: My writing skills aren’t what I want them to be 4.84%
Not at all: My writing skills are severely lacking 1.27%
Are you really clear? Almost 80% of you state that you’re extremely or very clear in your written communication but 80% of people being “above average” doesn’t work mathematically. Ask yourself if you’re as clear as you think you are. Better yet, ask someone else. Take some of your writing samples, give them to a trusted colleague who isn’t closely familiar with the topic you’re writing about. Ask them to review your communication then tell you what it means. Ask them what questions they have. Ask them how you might be clearer and more concise. We can all stand to improve our written communication skills. Don’t be satisfied with thinking you’re “above average” when you actually might not be. For those who are challenged in their writing skills, invest time in getting editing feedback. Read articles and take classes on effective written communications. While great writing skills won’t necessarily advance your career, poor writing skills will definitely hinder it.
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