Our reader poll today asks: How do you deal with manipulative people?
- I cut them out of my life as fast as I can: 32.5%
- I ignore their manipulations and do my own thing: 42.5%
- I often fail to realize I’m being manipulated: 6.2%
- I recognize I’m being manipulated but just let it happen: 2.8%
- I confront them directly and ask them to stop: 16.2%
Avoiding the manipulator. The majority of you seek either to ignore or get away from the manipulators in your life. While that can be effective in many situations, in some situations your only option is to confront that person and ask them to change their behavior. Some helpful techniques for dealing with manipulators include changing your perspective to look at their manipulations from a more logical perspective and changing the rules of the game to react differently to their behaviors. In any case, something needs to be done, or you’ll be miserable in the situation. If you’re not aware you’re being manipulated, spend more time being reflective and assess your relationships more objectively. Doing so might help suss out hidden manipulative behaviors.
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These results were originally a SmartPulse poll in SmartBrief on Leadership which tracks feedback from more than 210,000 business leaders. Get smarter on leadership and sign up for the SmartBrief on Leadership e-newsletter.