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5 Questions to Ask Before Making a Decision

December 10, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Communications, Leadership, Strategy, Training /by Trevor Jones

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Think through this set of five questions to clearly define the decision you’re trying to make. 

The first step in the decision-making process is clearly defining the decision you’re going to make. There are some key questions you should be asking as you’re defining the decision.

First, what’s the desired outcome?

Is there a specific metric that you’re trying to drive?

What are the choices that we’re trying to make and what are the possible choices that we can choose from?

When do we have to decide?

Who is this decision going to affect?

If you don’t go through these steps of defining the decision, you’re going to have unclear objectives, and that may lead you to make a bad choice. If you don’t define all the possible alternatives, you might miss a great opportunity. And last, not being clear about timelines or who’s going to be involved is going to increase risk, it’ll cause confusion, and it’s going to frustrate people in the decision-making process.

Allow me to offer an example of when we clearly defined a decision to be made. In my corporate life, one of the organizations I ran had paper-based payments that we were getting from our business partners, and we wanted to move from paper to electronic. So we define the desired outcome, no more paper. We said, “The choice we’re trying to make is how to best make that shift for our business partners.” We said, “The possible choices are going paper, electronic or some hybrid.” We clearly define the timeline. We said, “We need to decide by the end of the month. And within six months, we need all the paper to go away.” And we thought through who is going to be impacted by the decision, our organization, our business partners, as well as ultimately, our customers. And by going through this step of clearly defining the decision, we were able to successfully make a decision upfront and execute it well on the back end.

So as you go to make your own decisions, think through this set of five questions and drive that clarity of the decision you’re trying to make.

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When you owe someone money (like a supplier or an associate who needs reimbursement), how do you approach payment?

December 4, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Career, Leadership, Poll /by Trevor Jones

Our reader poll today asks: When you owe someone money (like a supplier or an associate who needs reimbursement), how do you approach payment?

  • I pay them immediately – no one should have to wait to get paid – 70%
  • I pay them when I have the time – I have a lot of things going on – 21%
  • I pay them at the end of the longest term possible – holding money makes money – 7%
  • I pay them after they remind me several times – 2%

Pay promptly. The vast majority of you pay your suppliers/associates promptly (70%) and don’t slow down their payments. For the 9% of you holding onto your money for as long as possible or waiting to be reminded that you owe, reconsider your practices. Your delays can be causing cash flow issues for your suppliers or associates. Are the few dollars in incremental interest you’re earning worth the frustration you cause for business partners or associates? Is that the kind of reputation you want? Sure, there’s economic value in hanging onto that cash as long as you can but there’s a relationship and reputational cost you pay for doing so. Look at the relationship holistically and ask if holding onto that cash is in your overall best interests. Based on this poll, the vast majority of your peers see things differently.

– Mike Figliuolo at thoughtLEADERS, LLC

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The 5-Step Decision-Making Process

December 3, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Communications, Leadership, Strategy, Training /by Trevor Jones

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There are 5 important steps to keep in mind when making a decision.

It’s important to realize that decision-making is actually a process. And it’s the process of selecting a choice from my range of possible options, with a goal of achieving a very specific objective. Now, contrast that with judgment. Judgment is the ability to form an opinion or reach a conclusion based on available information plus prior experience. So as you go to make a decision, there are some important principles to keep in mind.

Prepare

First, be clear about the objective. You need to understand what you’re optimizing for or trying to achieve as you make that particular decision.

Decide Who Gets to Decide

Second, decide who gets to decide and who doesn’t. Be clear about who’s going to be involved in the decision-making process. You need to define who to involve and how to involve them. Some people are going to provide input, other people will provide perspective on implementation, other people will actually make the decision, and having clarity of roles is critical for successful decision-making.

Gather Information

Next, you’ll need to reduce ambiguity and risk as much as is reasonable before making your decision. The way to do that is to gather information, but realize that gathering information takes time. And as you’re taking that time, new sources of uncertainty are going to emerge.

Decide and Communicate

Next, you’ll need to make your choice and make that choice known to the organization. Tell people you’ve made a decision, what the decision is, and why you made it.

Measure and Adjust

And then last, once you’ve made the decision, you need to evaluate and adjust based on new information.

So the decision-making cycle that you should think about following is first, prepare to make the decision, then you actually make the decision, communicate it to people in the organization, execute, which is put the decision into action, and measure and adjust accordingly.

Want to learn more about decision-making strategies? How about taking an entire course on it? Go directly to the course and start learning decision-making strategies. The entire course is available at LinkedIn Learning. Enjoy!

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When a team member communicates with you in a passive-aggressive way, how do you handle it?

November 27, 2025/1 Comment/in Business Toolkit, Career, Leadership, Poll /by Trevor Jones

Our reader poll today asks: When a team member communicates with you in a passive-aggressive way, how do you handle it?

  • I ignore it – they probably didn’t mean to come across that way – 18%
  • I seek clarification – I point out how their message came across poorly – 51%
  • I directly confront them and explain why their message was inappropriate – 25%
  • I’ve never had someone be passive aggressive with me – 6%

Passive aggression is still aggression. When team members and colleagues communicate in a passive-aggressive way, letting it slide doesn’t resolve the conflict. Getting clarification, providing feedback, and clarifying behavioral communication standards is a must. If you simply ignore the behavior, it will not only continue with you but it will be used with other colleagues, customers, and business partners. Inappropriate behavior requires quick corrective action lest it continue and even get worse.

– Mike Figliuolo at thoughtLEADERS, LLC

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Want Better Deals? Try These 6 Negotiation Tactics

November 26, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Communications, Leadership, Strategy, Training /by Trevor Jones

 

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Use these six techniques as you go through your negotiations. They can be very effective, but each one has their downsides. So be deliberate around picking the technique and understanding the risks that come along with it.

Over the years, I’ve learned some great negotiating techniques and tactics, and I’d like to share them now.

The Invisible Man

The first is called The Invisible Man, and that’s where you’re in the heat of a deal and you don’t want to give an answer right now, or you don’t like the position that the other party is taking, and you just say, well, I have to check with my colleagues before I can give you an answer. That other party isn’t in the room, so you’ve pushed back the negotiation, you’ve bought yourself some time, and now you have the ability to go back to the other party, and say, I know you wanted a 20% discount, but I’ve spoken with my colleagues and the best we can do is 10%. So, you’ve created an invisible authority that the other party has to negotiate against.

The Bogey

The second technique is called The Bogey. Act like something you don’t care about at all is really important to you. And then as you go through the deal, fight hard for that one point, but then you can trade it away later like you’re making a major concession and it doesn’t really cost you anything.

The Nibble

The next technique is called The Nibble, and this is right at the last minute, right before you get a deal done, ask for something extra. It’s not going to be big enough to break the deal, but beware, it can upset the other party. For example, if you’re out shopping for a suit, and you buy two suits and you’re spending a lot of money, and at the last minute, right at the register, say, well, you know what, I’ll buy the suits, can you throw in a tie and a belt? Now, the salesperson is looking at a really big commission and they’re not going to lose that big commission over a tie and a belt, and it’s a small nibble right at the end.

The Highball or Lowball

The next technique is The Highball or Lowball, depending on the position. Start ridiculously high, or ridiculously low, to cause the other party to really reevaluate their opening price. Now, there’s risk in this one, it could backfire and end the deal immediately.

Future Value

Another technique is Future Value. This is where you promise more value tomorrow in exchange for concessions today. Hey, we want to do this deal with you, so we want a much lower price, but we’re going to create a long-term, strategic partnership with you. And in the future, we’re going to send a lot of business your way. Here’s the thing, that business never materializes. Early in my career, I would accept that, and I would make concessions on the promise of that future business. And so many times, I’ve been disappointed when it doesn’t appear. If you’re promised future value, beware of this dynamic. And the best way to make that happen is build it into the contract and say, fine, I’ll give you the concessions, when that future business comes in, and protect yourself from that future value approach.

Multiple Rounds

The last technique is Multiple Rounds. Every time you think you have a deal done, there’s one more negotiator they didn’t tell you about and you have to satisfy their needs, and at each step of the way, that one additional negotiator wants a little bit more of a concession. I’ve been in several situations where we thought we had a deal done and we got the, oh, well, we have to kick it up to my boss, and that boss wanted another 5% or 2%. And after several rounds of negotiations, we gave up a lot of value.

Now, you can use all of these techniques as you go through your negotiations. They can be very effective, but each one has their downsides. So, be deliberate around picking the technique and understanding the risks that come along with it.

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How often do you see associates successfully complete a performance improvement plan (PIP) and fully rectify their performance issues?

November 20, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Career, Leadership, Poll /by Trevor Jones

Our reader poll today asks: How often do you see associates successfully complete a performance improvement plan (PIP) and fully rectify their performance issues?

  • They succeed all the time – 2%
  • They succeed most of the time – 18%
  • They succeed some of the time – 40%
  • They rarely succeed – 35%
  • They never succeed – 4%

Your role in performance improvement. You report that 80% of the time, associates fail to rectify PIP behavior with only some chance of success. The big question here is why don’t they succeed more? If you’re putting someone on a PIP, ask yourself if the plan is reasonable and achievable. Assess that assistance or resources they’ll need to successfully complete it. This might mean more of your time coaching them, investments in training or tools, or helping them navigate challenges with their coworkers. You can be a critical determinant of the person’s success or failure with respect to a PIP. Avoid the temptation to write them off as not being “fixable” – remember – you likely hired them at one point because you saw what they were capable of. Help them achieve that level of performance again.

– Mike Figliuolo at thoughtLEADERS, LLC

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Anchoring a Deal in a Negotiation

November 19, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Communications, Leadership, Strategy, Training /by Trevor Jones

Anchors are initial points from which you’re going to negotiate. They can lock you into a position, and unfair anchors can kill a deal. 

There’s an interesting dynamic that can happen in negotiations. It’s called anchoring. Anchors are initial points from which you’re going to negotiate. They can lock you into a position, and unfair anchors can kill a deal. If you get one, consider walking away. Also understand, if you give the other party an unfair anchor, they may walk away.

When you go to set an anchor, base it in reality with data or assumptions. Many times, the final offer in a deal, will end up within a reasonable distance from that initial anchor. For example, if you anchor your deal at $100 upfront, and that’s your first offer, more often than not, you’ll end up between 80 and $100. If instead, that first anchor was $500, you’ll end up between 400 and 500. That anchor can drive the final deal price a great deal. Now understand, that anchor also has to be based in reality. You can’t just throw a huge number out there, without some basis in fact. If you receive an anchor from the other party, and you don’t like it, change it. Go from one metric to another, and that’s an easy way to switch the anchor.

For example, I know a software company that was going to launch a platform, and the customer wanted to pay them $10,000 for the software. But they also wanted unlimited use of the software, forever. The startup would’ve lost out on significant longterm revenue, if they went with this single purchase price. That initial $10,000 anchor was not a tenable position. Now the startup didn’t argue with that anchor. They changed it. And they said “Well we don’t look at it as an initial purchase price. We’d rather look at it as a subscription model. And we’ll only charge you $100 per user, per year, for a seat license to our software.” They set this anchor based on comparable software sales in the market. And they were able to show their customer, “Here’s what comparable software costs.” They ended up ultimately with a fee structure of $100 for the first thousand users. $90 per year for the next thousand, and then $75 a year for any users over that. And it was an ongoing revenue stream. The startup captured significantly more value over time, because they were able to change the anchor from that initial one-time purchase, to an ongoing subscription.

As you look at the deals you’re entering into, be very aware of what those anchors are, and how they can shape the final outcome of the negotiation. Be deliberate about putting an anchor out there, and offering facts and data to support your in-going point. Because ultimately, that starting point is going to have a huge effect on the final negotiating price.

Want to learn more about strategic negotiation? How about taking an entire course on it? Go directly to the course and start learning how to set business unit goals. The entire course is available at LinkedIn Learning. Enjoy!

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What kind of incentive do you find to be the best motivator of performance?

November 13, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Career, Leadership, Poll /by Trevor Jones

Our reader poll today asks: What kind of incentive do you find to be the best motivator of performance?

  • Private verbal and written praise – 22%
  • Public awards and recognition – 15%
  • Promotions or assignment to special projects – 27%
  • Cash. Cold, hard cash – 28%
  • Something else – 8%

Finding the right incentive. Looks like a fair balance of tactics people use to motivate performance – spoken praise, awards, special projects and cash. What would be interesting to see would be your team members’ responses to this question in terms of what really motivates them. I suspect the balance might shift more toward cash, especially in the current environment. Go talk with your team members and ask them how they’d like to be motivated and rewarded. While you may think a special project would excite them, they might see it as punishment and extra work. If you can align the rewards to what matters to them, you’ll likely get better performance.

– Mike Figliuolo at thoughtLEADERS, LLC

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Structuring a Deal in Negotiation

November 12, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Communications, Leadership, Strategy, Training /by Trevor Jones

 

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By understanding your deal’s structure, you’re going to be able to identify opportunities to get a better deal as well as make the deal easier to go through because you can make it better for all parties involved.

Deal structure is going to impact your negotiating approach. There are several things you should look at as you lay out what the structure is. What are the objective criteria that exist and what are the assumptions you’re making about the deal structure? Are there financial criteria that you’re going to look at? Perhaps NPV or ROI, or how much the deal is going to cost. Laying out these objective criteria and some of the assumptions you’re making can help you be more fact-based in approaching the deal.

Next, understand the barriers to the deal. There are a lot of things that are going to get in the way of a deal getting done. The better you understand what these potential barriers are, the better you’re going to be able to negotiate either around them or get things as concessions to help you overcome those barriers.

Third, when does the deal need to be done? Understand the impacts of timing, what’s the value of doing a deal now versus waiting? Does your position get stronger or weaker over time?

And last, understand what would expand the pie. What could make this a better deal for all parties involved? By understanding additional things that you could bring into the deal, you may be able to overcome some of the barriers that were there in the first place.

For example, I had a client at one point that was looking at purchasing some competitive assets. The objective criteria that we were going to use were ROI, return on investment, the dollars os synergies we would get from making the deal, the net present value of making that deal. And we made several assumptions upfront that would help us price the deal. We assumed pricing around the deal, market share we would be able to achieve if we owned those assets, and what sales of the combined business would look like going forward. Assessing barriers was critical, there were regulatory barriers, there were operational and acquisition barriers and lastly, sales price was going to be a barrier that we had to overcome. As far as timing, we had six weeks, this was a bid process, there was a specific date on the calendar that a bid had to be submitted. Timing in this case was critical and we knew the longer we waited, the worse our position got. Finally, in terms of the structure and expanding the pie, we could offer to keep their management team on, we could offer to invest in the business after we purchased it. We could even add financial incentives after the fact if the teams stayed on and helped us grow the business.

So we made it a better deal without having to layout more cash upfront. By understanding the deal’s structure, you’re going to be able to identify opportunities to get a better deal as well as make the deal easier to go through because you can make it better for all parties involved. Spend that extra time laying out the structure and documenting it so that when you take your initial position in that negotiation, you’re able to get the most value out of the entire process that you can.

Want to learn more about strategic negotiation? How about taking an entire course on it? Go directly to the course and start learning how to set business unit goals. The entire course is available at LinkedIn Learning. Enjoy!

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When your business slows down, how does your organization react?

November 6, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Career, Leadership, Poll /by Trevor Jones

Our reader poll today asks: When your business slows down, how does your organization react?

  • We frantically try to boost revenue by trying a lot of new things – 7%
  • We’ll push core sales and marketing efforts even harder – 19%
  • We’ll tighten our belts and cut expenses dramatically – 26%
  • We’ll continue with our plan but build contingency plans if things don’t go well – 38%
  • We continue with business as usual and ride things out – 10%

Riding it out. When business slows, it’s easy to freak out and start pursuing every opportunity you can think of to drive performance. The risk is you dilute your focus and can possibly pursue things that are inconsistent with your company’s strategy. While in the short term that might generate some cash, long term it can muddy your focus and harm long-term performance. Many of you report taking some action like reducing expenses or putting plans in place so you can act quickly if things continue to get worse. Regardless of which actions you take in reaction to a business slowdown, at least slow down and be deliberate in your choices. Understand the longer-term implications (like cutting investment in R&D now could harm your long-term product pipeline and create a future crisis; or cutting training investments now can lead to unskilled workers or higher attrition in the future). Don’t let fear rule your decision making. Be deliberate and understand the consequences of your choices.

– Mike Figliuolo at thoughtLEADERS, LLC

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Understanding Players and Positions in Negotiation

November 5, 2025/0 Comments/in Business Toolkit, Communications, Leadership, Strategy, Training /by Trevor Jones

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Understanding the players and their positions is going to help you look at how they’re coming at the deal and the points you should either push on or be willing to concede.

Having a good knowledge of the players and the positions they are going to take in any negotiation is going to set you up for success. There are four things you should consider about your opponent.

First, who’s involved in the negotiation and who ultimately makes the deal? By looking at all the parties who are going to have a say, you’ll have a better understanding of what they want and what’s important to them.

Second, what are the must haves, the want to haves and the nice to haves? If you can list out all the things the other party wants to get out of the deal and understand what’s most important to them and what’s least important, it can inform your ultimate negotiating strategy.

Third, what’s your desired outcome from their perspective, and what happens if there’s no deal? The other party has goals. You have to lay out what you think those goals are, and also understand if a deal goes away, how are they going to react?

Last, what are the alternatives to the deal? You’re not the only option out there. They may have other opportunities that they can pursue if the deal falls through with you.

I was doing an acquisition once where it was a very complex deal, and we laid out the players and their positions very clearly. We understood who was involved. It was a family business, so the full leadership team, the entire family was going to be involved and would have to approve the deal. Their must haves were price and that the team had stay on as part of the operations. Their wants were they wanted control over the operations, but they were willing to give that up in the deal, and the nice to have would’ve been a little bit of extra money. Their desired outcome was to make a deal, but also to remain independent or sell to one of our competitors if the deal fell through. We had clarity on what it would take to keep them engaged in that deal process, and what would get them to be willing to make concessions to us.

Understanding the players and their positions is going to help you look at how they’re coming at the deal and the points you should either push on or be willing to concede.

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When a team member has an idea they love and you don’t like it, how do you handle the situation?

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Our reader poll today asks: When a team member has an idea they love and you don’t like it, how do you handle the situation?

  • I let them try their idea and see what happens – 10%
  • I provide my input then let them choose a course of action – 80%
  • I argue against their idea but let them proceed if they’re really passionate – 5%
  • I overrule their idea and go with my preferred approach – 4%

Provide input and move aside. The overwhelming majority of you (80%) will provide input to your team members when they’re passionate about an idea (even if you’re not) and then stand aside to let them proceed with it. The wisdom in this approach is it keeps team members engaged because they get to drive their ideas. They may also find new ways of doing things you’ve never thought of – you don’t have a monopoly on being right. And if they’re wrong and your reservations play out the way you thought they would, it becomes a learning opportunity for that team member and next time they have an idea they’re more likely to listen to your guidance and incorporate it. The final benefit is you get to work on other things while they focus on driving their own projects.

– Mike Figliuolo at thoughtLEADERS, LLC

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