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How to Strike the Right Balance between Guiding and Micromanaging

June 30, 2014/9 Comments/in Guest Blogger, Leadership /by Mike Figliuolo

US Navy LeadershipToday’s post is by Mark Nevius of Administrate.com.

Whether you’re an entrepreneur who has recently opened his first office and hired the first set of people, or an eager-to-please manager, micromanaging tendencies can set in any time.

It’s an easy trap to fall into. Some people confuse being a hands-on boss with micromanaging their staff. Others take it too far in the opposite direction. You want to avoid both extremes, and like a true enlightened being, walk the middle path to find your peace.

The Tendency to Micromanage

If you feel you have the tendency to micromanage, ask yourself why do you feel the need for it? Not getting psychoanalytical here but this is a pertinent question. Some of the common reasons for micromanagement include:

A lack of trust in employees

Some people have the bad habit of abusing Internet privileges or coming in consistently late or complaining about the boss to others on Skype. You will run into such employees from time to time, but that shouldn’t cause you to think that they are all the same.

You think your employees are incompetent

If you genuinely feel your employees are no good and that they cannot perform without constant supervision on your part, you need to ask yourself why you hired them in the first place. And in case you discovered their alleged incompetence after having hired them, why are you still persisting with them?

You’re a perfectionist

A number of factors inspire controlling behavior, and a refusal to accept anything less than “perfect” is one of them. But beware. “If you try to control everything they do, employees will end up feeling patronized by you and will begin to resent you. If you get too hung up on the details and constantly point out what they are doing wrong, your coworkers will assume you dislike their entire body of work and will start preforming poorly.” – Don’t micromanage your employees.

What to Do about It

Employees look to their bosses for direction. Your aim is to provide guidance and lead your team along clear paths with well-defined goals. When this guidance or clarity isn’t forthcoming, it leads to confused behavior not just on part of the employees but also on the part of the leader. And that is why we recommend the following:

Convey Clear Expectations to Your Team

If you find yourself fighting the urge to oversee every small detail of your employees’ functioning, you might want to ask yourself if your employees really know what is expected of them.

What are your expectations from your employees and have you conveyed these to them in clear and unambiguous terms?

Put Stock in Key Performance Indicators

Set strong and clear goals, or more specifically key performance indicators, for all your departments to meet on a quarterly basis. Meet every fortnight to check if you are on course to achieving your quarterly goals. These frequent meetings and proceeding along a set of indicators will reinforce in the minds of your staff the organizational and team member goals, thus reducing the need for you to intervene in the meantime.

Admit Your Real Fears and Check if they are Rational

Acting out of suspicion is rarely productive, but pretending that all is well, even when you are clearly beset with worries, isn’t helpful either. If something is bothering you, it’s better to address the root cause of it.

For instance, you worry that your employees watch videos for hours during work hours. What has triggered this suspicion? If you must put your suspicions to rest, check the Internet usage of the employee in question. Check if they have been meeting their deadlines and if their work is up to scratch. If the answer to both is yes, then you need not worry about how they spend their time on the Internet.

On the contrary, however, if their work is suffering and they have been missing deadlines of late, you want to act on it sooner than later.

Delegate Authority

At the risk of sounding like the devil’s advocate, I’d say that some people actually need to be micromanaged. Yes. We all have handled team members and employees who slip the moment we get off their case. It’s not ideal, but seems like you cannot get them to stay in their best and most professional mode all day long. So what do you do with them, other than fire them?

You micromanage them but you get somebody else to do it for you.

As a leader your time is too precious to be wasted keeping an eye on who spent how many hours chatting on Facebook this morning. But you can always appoint people (preferably one person per team) to inform you of the members in their respective teams who aren’t meeting deadlines.

– With a background in training and tech, Mark Nevius helps get the word out about Administrate, which makes time-saving management software for training providers.  In addition to assisting in marketing, Mark keeps his finger on the pulse of the training industry and helps provide great content to training providers around the world.

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  1. Lora Schafer (@loraschafer)
    Lora Schafer (@loraschafer) says:
    July 1, 2014 at 4:00 pm

    I’ve worked with a lot of small business owners who have found themselves right in this same spot, and I agree with everything this post said, good stuff.
    I think one of the big challenges is a lack of understand of how to empower others and hold them accountable at the same time. Accountability without empowerment is micromanaging, empowerment with accountability is like the wild, wild west. Learning to do both is the key and it requires attention, intentionality and an open dialogue with your team.

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    • Ray Glennon
      Ray Glennon says:
      July 3, 2014 at 11:12 am

      Lora,
      You said it in a single sentence. Well done.
      “Accountability without empowerment is micromanaging, empowerment with accountability is like the wild, wild west.”

      And striking the proper balance is key to job satisfaction — for both the manager and those that report to the manager.

      To all those in USA, have a great Independence Day weekend.

      Reply
  2. Ramesh Ramaiyer
    Ramesh Ramaiyer says:
    July 3, 2014 at 1:02 pm

    One missing perspective on “what makes you into a micromanager?” is the tight deadline and the enormity of the task ahead of the team.

    Manager and team knows it is impossible to get through unless execution is right the first time. That forces the manager to micromanage to be on top of a fast moving execution team. It might start as that, could be seen by others as fear of failure on the part of manager etc.

    In my opinion, Agile methodology for Software Development has institutionalized this approach so more Execs want it this way.

    Reply
  3. Valerie
    Valerie says:
    July 3, 2014 at 2:21 pm

    This is not about institutionalizing anything! Nor should this be a sales pitch for Agile Software. If it is, you are wasting everyone’s time and energy.

    Micromanaging is a sickness.

    Hire people you believe in. As a boss and “leader, ” give them goals, deadlines and Acknowledge proverbial sacred cows ( so they know the real political pitfalls), then let them do. … THEIR jobs?

    You can disagree with their recommendations, but let them do their jobs. Then you can over
    ride their recommendations, depending
    on the degree of your micromanaging, aka, bad boss skill sets.

    As a boss, give them the right info. Upfront. If you don’t then it’s on YOU.

    If you do give them the proper information and goals, even if they come up with a different conclusion than anticipation … Then it’s money well spent. You now have two options from which to choose.

    Reply
  4. Valerie
    Valerie says:
    July 3, 2014 at 2:34 pm

    As a consultant, I have always utilized a two step process for answering a client’s request.
    1) here’s the answer to YOUR request;
    2) by the way, here’s a different ( lucky strike extra) perspective and option that just might work even better.

    Ignore the original request, and even though alternate solution might be better – it will fall on deaf ears and instill negative feelings. Even if everyone is smiling in a courteous manner during the meeting, you just made the people who are giving you money feel embarrassed. answer the request and then offer options,

    Reply
  5. Andre V
    Andre V says:
    July 3, 2014 at 4:08 pm

    What about if you have a jackass for a boss that insists on micromanaging but knows nothing about the details he purports to want to micromanage? How should we deal with a jerk who is at 60,000 feet, but manages as if he is in the trenches?

    Reply
  6. Ralph Henderson
    Ralph Henderson says:
    July 30, 2014 at 2:43 pm

    Mike,
    Well written article. Thank you for the insight.

    Regards,
    Ralph

    Reply

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